





Neva with the rabbit leg


I realize that it's already December and I'm only now writing about November. When I started this blog I thought I’d be able to keep it up once a week. I’m sorry to say that I’ve fallen back to once a month. It seems that the longer I live here, the busier I get. I don’t know if that’s because Neva is getting older and is (in a wonderful way) more work, or if it’s because I’m learning how to be more productive. I am a TV lover who doesn’t own a TV (I’m not criticizing people who own TVs or let their children watch TV because, as I said, I love TV) and a movie-lover who always seems to tired to watch movies.
Oh and also, I’ve started my winter routine. That’s it. That’s why I’m so busy.
Since the harvest is over, Matthew has been working part-time on the farm in the mornings and watching Neva in the afternoons so I can work on my writing. Instead of having the whole day to do my usual things, I've only had the mornings (not that I'm complaining) so I've needed to be more creative about getting the essential things done.
I haven’t written (except on my blog and a few essays) since before Neva was born. You know, it took me years to be able to call myself a ‘writer’ but even then I still felt I couldn’t relate to famous authors who would say, ‘you must write every day if you’re a writer,’ or ‘you know you’re a writer if you can’t NOT write.’ I guess I would read those quotes and think, ‘well, I certainly don’t write everyday and I can go long stretches (years even) without writing seriously’ so I must not be a real writer. But I had a sort of epiphany when I started writing again at the beginning of the month. I sat down my first day at the computer with my candles lit and my soft music playing and the words just poured out of me. And I felt so euphoric. I felt a renewed sense of purpose. I knew this was for me. And I knew I was indeed a writer.
Speaking of authors, have any of you ever read the Little House on the Prairie books? I’m on the last one and I just have to say how inspiring and beautiful they are. It makes me want to make cheese and churn butter and tap maple trees for their sap. It does not, however, make me want to live on a Prairie in winter.
I’m told that it will be 6 degrees here this Wednesday. Good thing we aren’t living on a Prairie. But yikes, it will be cold this winter!
We were quite busy the month of November. At the beginning of November, we traveled to South Dakota to see Matthew’s grandparents who’d never seen Neva before. We also saw the homestead farm that is still in his family. Matthew’s grandmother is an amazing cook and housekeeper and cans like crazy (even in her eighties). With great love, she also cares for her husband who had a stroke a few years ago. To top it off, her well-used oven is spotless. She never even uses the self-cleaning mechanism. I came back to my own oven and was ashamed to see piles of black crust at the bottom. I did use my self-cleaning button!
For Thanksgiving, my entire family came to the farm. We killed another chicken (to show them where their food comes from), cut down a Christmas tree, fed goats and chickens, sang around a bonfire and roasted s’mores, ate and ate, rearranged some of my rooms, jumped on a trampoline and roamed through the woods, ate some more, went to a Christmas festival, and had a wonderful time together. The house felt awfully empty when they left. I think Neva particularly felt the loss of her playmates. My mom always says that when young children spend time with lots of family, they are always harder to deal with afterward. But they almost always make some sort of developmental leap because of all the stimulation. That’s true with out Neva. She talked and talked after they left and she is on the cusp of walking everywhere.

